Info age melt down!

Its like infinity to try and keep up with all the Social networking sites and passwords and linking them together to keep things under control.
I am trying to have two gmail accounts to avoid too much email for family and friends verses my Art business.
Facebook blocked me from my name sake Facebook account, which had over 4 thousand contacts, I feel naked with out access to this.
I got a new pc and I cant seem to link my blackberry appropriately to my gmail accounts.
Oh MY GAWD
My head is spinning in download mode!!!!
stop the madness!!
whatever happen to a letter or a phone call!
I miss those days of simplicity..
who ever said that the information age was easier was probably born after 1979 !
Cheers
papermoonies